It’s
true
that
most
men
are
visual.
He
is
aroused
by
what
he
sees.
It
can be the woman's legs,
bossoms, waistline, tush, etc. In
the beginning that keeps the
man going but after a while men,
in a relationship, some men get
bored and tired. It’s hard to hear
this but it's true.
They love you but they enjoy
excitement, new things,
remember they are visual. As
Eddie Murphy said in his stand
up show, “At first, the man is
hungry. You give him that
cracker and he loves it, it’s the
best one he has ever had.
Unfortunately after time goes by,
they are no longer interested, the
cracker is the same, stale and
dry”. Just as women, men need
something to keep them
interested. You may still look the
same but so is everything else.
The couple must always try to
find a way to keep that flame
going. Keep it flickering strong
and make it last. Love is part of it
but then there is the bedroom. At
times, everyone is so busy that
when it comes to the bedroom,
there is no action.
Just good night, a simple kiss
and off to sleep. It gets to the
point that it is such a routine,
they have no desire to be
intimate. Well just like women,
you can get them aroused by
stimulating him from head to toe
with light caresses, kisses and
even a little visual show to get
him going.
EYES
Since they are visual, this is
perfect. Without letting him
know anything, start undressing
in front of him, if possible put on
a little music. You will catch him
off guard and this will definitely
get his engine going. As you are
undressing, do it slowly and
definitely make it sexy. When he
is aroused by what he sees, his
pupils dilate. When you make
occasionally eye contact, he will
get even more aroused. What
you may have not known is that
looking at his dilated eyes will
also arouse you. So the more
intense the look, the hotter it
gets between the two of you.
STOMACH
Men get butterfly in their
stomach when they are around a
woman he is interested in. Once
he begins to be get turned on,
the veins in his gut constrict and
his blood heads straight to the
penis and surrounding muscles.
This causes him to get that
fluttery sensation in his stomach.
To use this to your advantage,
just trace a line with your tongue
from the tip of his penis to his
abs. This will enhance that
feeling and make him tingle. It
will drive him crazy.
THIGHS
Since he is aroused, the extra
blood flow goes to his thighs. To
make it a little more intense, just
before sex, plant a few kisses in
his inner thighs or caress him
with the ends of your hair. This
will make his thighs tighten and
each time he thrusts, he will
tighten even more. He will climax
with each thrust and after his
orgasm he will stay a bit tight. So
give him a soothing massage on
his thighs to relax those muscles,
he will appreciate it.
EARS
When he’s aroused, his ears
become hypersensitive to the
touch as blood rushes to this
area. Notice as you whisper in
his ears, not only is he aroused
by the words you speak into his
ears but your warm breath.
Don’t forget to nibble lightly on
the ridges of his ear before sex
to fire him up.
BUTT
His anus and butt are full of
nerves that increase in sensitivity
as he is aroused and climaxes. If
he is comfortable with this,
caress his buttocks in circular
motion. He will get more and
more aroused. Make the circles
smaller and smaller, getting
closer to the anus. If he still
shows that he is comfortable
play with his anus. He has the
highest concentration of nerves
in this area. As he nears climax,
touch him more roughly, do
playful swats on his butt. If you
grab it and pull him deeper into
you it will make him climax more
and his orgasm will be more
intense.
BRAIN
During sex his brain releases
chemicals that affect his desires.
In the arousal stage, the brain
releases dopamine into his
system, that’s when he shows a
very intense desire for you. If
there is something you want to
try, this is the time to make the
request. He will most likely give
into whatever you desire by this
time, he is at the highest peak.
Now after his orgasm, he does
feel close to you but tends to
zonk out which aggravates
women. Just so that you know, it
is not something they do on
purpose; it truly is out of their
control. Once his brain shuts
down, a chemical called oxytocin
is released into his system. It
basically knocks him out. So, we
all like to cuddle but remember,
his body is exhausted and this
chemical will basically make him
sleep soundly and peacefully.
SPINE
The spine is full of nerves that
connect directly to his penis. It’s
good to get him to lie on his
stomach and sit ever so lightly on
his buttocks, in kind of a
caressing way. Once you are in
this position, caress him up and
down his spine. The tingly
sensation will make him
aroused. If you want to make it
even more interesting, give him a
rush especially down below,
massage him with your breasts.
That will drive him wild.
FEET
Women love it when their feet
are massaged. It feels so
relaxing and so good. Well men
enjoy them as much as we do.
During foreplay, it is good to
massage his feet. The part of his
brain that regulates his feet
sensation is right next to the
region that controls his
erections. If you want to get him
more aroused, just do the
cowgirl position. While in this
position, lean back and grab his
feet while he is climaxing. This
will send serious sensations to
his penis and while he is
climaxing don’t be surprised to
see his feet arch, shake and even
curl his toes. If you see this, you
know he was truly satisfied.
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