erogenous zone itself. The belly,
back, neck, elbows, shoulders,
wrists,
knees, ankles -- everything is
responsive to caressing. If some
zones
are “out of order,” their
sensitivity can be developed.
Erogenous zone number one is
the vulvar region, the large and
small
vulvar lips, clitoris and the region
around it. By stimulating them
skillfully, the partner will give you
more pleasure than during the
sexual intercourse.
The breasts are also a
significant zone. It is enough just
to touch
your beloved or even think of
him to make your breasts lifted
and
enlarged a bit, as if giving you a
signal of excitement. Caressing
the breasts not only turns a
woman on, but also helps her
genitals
to be ready for sex.
The brain also can be called
an erogenous zone. We
feel intense erotic sensations
because of our brains. It gives
rise
to strong feelings, which are the
reaction to messages from the
erogenous
zones.
You can find more erogenous
zones if you try.
The search for sensitive parts of
your partner’s body is fascinating
and useful for mutual
understanding. But you can do
even more and begin
to create so-called “secondary
zones.” They are of great
significance, because they are
associated with sexual
stimulation. Let’s
suppose your husband strokes
your loins each time after you
have an
orgasm. These strokes may cause
particular associations in your
mind,
and your loins will become your
secondary erogenous zone;
touching them
will turn you on immediately.
You should be in the mood for
caressing.
If you feel a little squeamish
when your partner is stroking
some parts
of your body, or if it causes some
inner resistance, then erogenous
zone stimulation won’t give you
any pleasure, but will only make
the process painful. If you caress
you partner feeling only dislike
or disgust, this won’t do either.
Only letting your partner caress
you, but remaining unemotional,
is not good either.
Age means a lot. The role of
erogenous
zones increases as you become
older. A man cannot get excited
after
the ages of 35-40 as quickly as
he could when he was 18. He
needs different
kinds of stimulation to start
feeling excited, including direct
stimulation
of the genitals. His sexual life will
be all right if his partner is
active and creative. But it is late
to begin searching for
erogenous
zones when a man is already 40.
And a man himself will resist;
earlier,
he was able to become excited
so easily and now, all of a
sudden, he
is treated (stroked) like a girl.
Therefore, your man’s erogenous
zones should be found by you at
the very beginning of your living
together.
As for women, their sensitivity
won’t be revealed without skilful
erogenous zone stimulation. If
your partner is an expert lover,
you
are lucky. If not, try to make him
an expert, encouraging him
tactfully
in the right direction.
Do not be a bore! Sexual
stimulation should
be interrupted; otherwise you
won’t excite your partner -- you
will put him to sleep.
First, stroke man’s buttocks, then
slap them; blow a thin
stream of cool air on his penis,
and then breathe warm air on it;
massage his back slightly and
scratch it with your nails at the
same
time.
If your partner is unaware of the
principle of interruption, let
him know about it. Otherwise he
won’t be able to excite you
effectively.
As a rule, rough and intense
caressing suppresses, but does
not
increase, a woman’s sensitivity.
But there are exceptions: in
this case, pinching and slapping
are required.
The clitoris, head of the penis
and testicles are very sensitive
and cannot bear being touched
roughly.
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